It was a “something-is-missing” weekend (Part I)

27 Mar 08 – Eve of my bday

My colleague treated me to Thai Express for lunch. Nothing really fantastic except for the mango glutinious rice, which I really love! I took a half day leave after that and went home to take a nap.

Met Tallie at the ktv pub at night and she ignored me most of time leh (after that she said that cos she was quite sei then). Felt bored then, the same old drinking, singing, finger guessing etc etc etc. There was no one to entertain me except Tallie, cos most of the pple there are her friends. But when she’s sei, no one entertain me loh.

There was Mr. W (Butterfly’s friend) who was left on the shelf as well, so I jio him played poker since both of us bored. But he was quite….weird. Dunno, maybe I dun understand his way of playing poker bah. 

Anyway, he was suppose-ed butterfly’s fling. But butterfly was too busy paying attention to Mr. $. Thus, he was left alone even though it was butterfly who jio him down. Mr. $ was a bit scared of butterfly, after he know of butterfly’s interest in him. Mr. $ seems more interested in Tallie than her. He likes to chit chat with Tallie and told her his life story.

Tallie and gals were quite pissed with butterfly heavily colored character towards guys and feel unjust for Mr. W. But Mr. W seems to take it well, he dun seems to mind at all. See? He’s WEIRD!

After butterfly and Mr. W left, my lack of entertainment made me chit chat with Mr. $. He’s married, but likes to go to pubs and get to know gals. I asked him if his wife knows about it. He said she knows, even before they are married. But he carries on with his act and his wife continue to hang on to the marriage. Btw, they are newly-wed, not like those who got married for a very long time and got bored of it.

I felt very amused and he carried on his story. He said that he is constantly in relationships, out of his marriage. Flings, mistress, part-time etc etc etc. But he claimed he’s different, cos he never hide the fact that he is a married man, yet women flocked to him like bees to honey. He seems to want to justify that he’s actually not a bad guy, which is why he explained things like this and it highlighted a fact that 男人贱 and 女人犯贱.

Anyway, it failed to convince me. Infidelity is something I can’t endure. And why those women endure remain a mystery to me. I asked him, why get married if you want to carry on with your relationship”S”. He gave me a very truthful answer – he said that cos everyone is selfish and everyone needs a home to go back to at the end of the day. That is why his marriage became a shelter for him at the end of the day.

Wonder how long is his wife going to endure? I truly believe that no women is generous enough to share his husband with the gals out there. I guess that the wife stayed on believing that she can change him. But from the look of it, he is not going to change into anything less than the one she met before they got married. Some women are just so 看不开. Do we pity them or think they deserve it? I wonder…

The night passed very boringly. Nearing the end of the night, #36 came down. He is the guy that Tallie wanted to intro me (supposedly).  He looks quite decent and accordingly to Tallie, should be quite rich since he stayed in Bishan area. He just came down for a while, drank a glass of tequila mix and said that he needs to leave soon as he has to work the following day.

After that, he sent Tallie and me home. Tallie was quite sei, so she slept in the mini-van. I was half asleep and upon nearing our area, I woke up and realised that he exited via Ave 12. So, my logic is: Since he has exited via Ave 12, he should be sending Tallie home 1st, followed by me. Because from the exit, it takes about 5 mins to reach Tallie’s place whereas it’ll take about 15mins to reach mine.

So, he asked me:

#36: Where is the place?

Me: (thinking: he meant Tallie’s address bah) XXX drive.

#36: Erm…

Me: U mean mine or Tallie’s place?

#36: (softly) Your address.

Though puzzled, I gave him my address and he sent me home 1st. After that Tallie called me when I reach home cos she wanted to make sure I reach home before they moved off. I replied her telling her that I think #36 has something on.

Haiz, fancy Tallie wanted to intro me #36 when he obviously has something for Tallie liao. Just dawned on me that guys always have a motive for doing something. The fact that he went down just for a while and subsequently drove her home are proof that he has something for her. Come on la, who will willingly become someone’s chauffeur? Furthermore, he purposely came down to meet her, 难道 he did that just to because he wanted to be friendly ma? He PURPOSELY went down so that he could send her home loh. And guys usually did that to please the gals they want to chase. No doubt.

But Tallie dun think he is her cup of tea, cos he seems too 乖. But as Tallie’s friend, I think he is quite eligible and nice,  Tallie should get together with more of such guys ma. I’ll much prefer him to the rest of Tallie’s potentials.

I told Tallie the following day my thoughts on this #36 and she dismissed it saying cos he was her friend; cos more on the way when he drives home etc etc etc. But I dun really buy it. I still think he has that something for Tallie, which explains everything.

And if #36 is interested in Tallie or I sensed that he is, I wun categorise him in my potential list. I think 1st impression really matters, why would I even have 好感for someone whom I deemed is more interested in my friend than me? — [This para is for Tallie, dun even try to matchmake him and me anymore k?]

TO BE CONTINUED TML…